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| Where else would an historically vanilla gal go but online to find a guy to casually talk about whips, blindfolds and throat grabbing with? OKCupid proves a free, interesting and at times just downright weird place to be - however I've met some lovely chaps off the site so with some judicious filtering it can be alright in the end. |
A real struggle I have is how to put this across in my online adverts without attracting the wrong kind of guy.
I read a really interesting blog today about Alpha Sub females (link here) which definitely spoke to me - actually I only found out about this concept due to a message from someone on OKCupid. Boy oh boy are there some kinky players on the free dating sites - but I guess that's good for a dipping a toe into the scene.
It's odd, since I've been quite young I think there has been something very sexually compelling about giving up control - I can understand the attraction of a female dominator, and I'd like to explore a switching relationships ultimately, but for now the role of a submissive seems more natural to me.
Sensual domination as described on Dominant Soul's blog definitely appeals - with some of the scenarios he sets out being incredibly erotic (to my mind at least).
I'm considering re-writing my profile, I've used a couple of the phrases he has suggested already in tweaking my personal profile. Of course the danger is that several guys in work also use this site and I don't really want to advertise my preferences so explicitly that it would be clear to all and sundry.
Urgh - at times a big City can be a surprisingly small place!
My date on the weekend has already mentioned porn and whips, but I'm not sure his profile indicated an interest in BDSM - so we'll see if he's just a talker or whether he has a genuine interest in the kink scene.
Single girl adventures abound and continue...one hopes!
xoxo
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